THEORY AND TECHNIQUES OF THE INTERVIEW - 6 JOB INTERVIEW REJECTION - Working Through Rejection

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Guidance for job seekers facing interview rejection emphasizes maintaining confidence, reframing setbacks, and protecting interview performance. It explains how rejection can trigger insecurity, yet stresses ongoing preparation, positive thinking, and after-action review based on what went well and what to improve. It also recommends contacting employers for feedback, treating job searching like a sales effort, and recognizing misfit rather than personal failure. Practical steps include responding calmly, asking why, and requesting strengths and weaknesses to refine future interviews.

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6. JOB INTERVIEW REJECTION

6.1. The Reality of Rejection

6.2. Working Through Rejection

THEORY AND TECHNIQUES OF THE INTERVIEW 6. JOB INTERVIEW REJECTION 6.1. The Reality of Rejection Every job seeker, no matter how talented and experienced, has received at least one dreaded rejection letter in his or her career. And, no matter how talented and experienced the job seeker, rejection always brings up deep seated insecurities and that inevitable question: "Why?" Even though it is a drag to be rejected by a potential employer, the key to landing a job is not to dwell on missed opportunities and just keep focusing on possibilities. If you don't have ajob and are getting rejection letters after interviewing, the process can be both scary and depressing. Do not let yourself get so down on yourself or depressed that your interview skills suffer. Each job interview has to bea whole new world of positive thinking. Don't reflect on past losses, failures, or rejections when preparing for an interview. Prepare and put a positive spin on everything that you discuss with your interviewers. Positive thinking will get you far in interviews. After each interview sit down and make a list of everything you thought went well and the things that you think you could have improved upon. Then, if you don't get the job at least you will have given yourself some feedback that you can use to improve your interview skills the next time. Sometimes interviewers will tell you why you didn't get the job but you can't count on that. You have to create your own after action review in order to improve your skills. Don't focus on rejection. Treat your job search like a sales job. You are selling product "You Inc." to a potential employer. Don't focus on the sales you lose but try to learn from them in order to improve your pitch until you close a deal. Keep in mind that many times the jobs you don't get are blessings in disguise eventhough you may not think so at the time. Don't think "what's wrong with me?"when you are rejected for a job because, in truth, there may not be anything wrong with your interview skills or your ability to do the job. It may be that you and the company aren't a good fit for each other, and that is nothing to get depressed about. In today’s fast paced and competitive society, job hunting can be a challenge that will leave some individuals feeling depressed and hopeless. You begin your search with confidence and passion, but as you receive one rejection phone call or letter after another, you begin to experience self-doubt. Make no mistake that in any job hunt, you will be rejected at some point, no matter how good you are. When you’re at this point, you must not allow yourself to sink into this quicksand of rejection. Don’t ever give up because that perfect job opportunity could be just around the corner. For any given employment opportunity, there are usually hundreds of applicants applying, which allows prospective employers to be very choosy. Decisions are usually made based on whom the employer deems will be a better fit for their company. If you find that your phone is not ringing off the hook with interview offers, it might be a good idea to contact companies you’ve interviewed with and attempt to get feedback. This will help you understand why you did not receive an offer, learn from your experience, and give you an opportunity to further develop your approach. Try not to think of rejection as failure. Focus on the things you did well, and continue to build upon your strengths and talents. Take a good constructive look at what you can do to improve, whether it is your written documents or your personal interview. Think of the whole process as a chance to grow and learn from the experience. Every opportunity you have to better yourself provides you with a better chance at getting that next employment opportunity. The last thing to remember after you get passed over for a job is that no decision is irreversible and nothing is permanent. The hiring manager may change his or her mind and/or the candidate the

FAQs

Why does job interview rejection hurt, even for talented applicants?

Rejection often exposes deep-seated insecurities and raises the question “Why?”. Even strong candidates can face rejection because outcomes depend on fit and employer choices, not only ability.

How can you improve after receiving a rejection?

Create an after-action review: list what went well, identify what could be improved, and refine how you present yourself. When possible, contact companies for feedback to understand why you didn’t receive an offer.

What should you do when an employer chooses another candidate?

Ask why they selected another candidate and highlight skills that could provide an edge. Avoid emotional appeals or desperation; provide a clear, tangible reason you should be hired.

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