Why Men REALLY Cheat - The Psychological Secrets of Male Infidelity

Aug 6, 2026

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Why men really cheat examines male infidelity through psychological and cognitive-relationship perspectives, translating research into practical insights. The book follows real-world “types” and narratives, then explains the psychology behind male excuses and how attraction, environment, and thought processing contribute to relationship breakdown. It also summarizes findings, includes case study discussion using B.E.T. theory, and offers a quick guide to identify warning signs and shape-shifters.

LanguageEnglish

CategoryResearch & Report

FormatPDF

Pages276

Reading Time11 h 36 min

AccessFree to download

Foreword

The Story

Chapter 1 - Wednesday evening

Chapter 2 - Why men REALLY cheat

Chapter 3 - “Twenty-seven?”

Chapter 4 - “You shouldn't be goin'through my stuff, Liv'" - Nick

Chapter 5 - The “Common” Types

Chapter 6 - “An honest woman of you'” - Maurice

Chapter 7 - The “Rarer” Types

Chapter 8 - “I wish my girl was as understanding as you” - Ramone

Chapter 9 - The Appealing “Types”

Chapter 10 - “What other people do doesn't bother me” - Cameron

Chapter 11 - The “Do Not Notice” Types

Chapter 12 - “Why do girls always want to stop a guy having fun?” - Ben

Chapter 13 - “Get Rid” Types

Chapter 14 - I've never met anyone like you before - Richard

The Psychology

Chapter 15 - The psychology behind male excuses: What is the man made of?

Chapter 16 - B.E.T. theory (Part 1) - Assessing a Man's “type” - The Brain

Chapter 17 - B.E.T. theory (Part 2) - Assessing a Man's “type” - The Environment

Chapter 18 - B.E.T. theory (Part 3) - Assessing a Man's “type” - Thought Processing

Chapter 19 - What men REALLY said about cheating - The results in short!

Chapter 20 - Case Study: Explaining how B.E.T. theory can work

The Guide - The Sure Fire Signs

Chapter 21 - The “Sure Fire” signs - a quick guide to identify a man's type

Chapter 22 - The Shape-shifters

Chapter 23 - Sleeping with the enemy

References

# Why Men RarelyReallyCHEAT The Psychological Secrets of Male nfidelity Leam how to play your relationship cards Martyn Stewart 浙 804ety ## About the Author 「、 Martart is from Manchester,England.During his collegeducaunforeseen incident unexpectedly led him towardsychhe subject has been integral to his life ever since. Her fifteen years of experience in the field,focusingpecuman relationships and cognitive psychology.Duringt is tias conducted studies into interpersonal attraction and1efacuencing relationship breakdown.Currently workinga Hsychology at one of the world’s top internationalcolle.is constantly using his experiences and diversek iowinspire the next generation. Ine time Martyn is a keen sportsman and entrepreneur.He alss an interest in acting,music,history,films andtravellihas contributed significantly to his local area viayouth vsocial inclusion and teaching. Hisst project,Why men REALLY cheat:The PsychologicalSecrets oale Infidelity’,has produced a series of successfulinternatI seminars culminating with the production of this1ook.Thresearch findings from men all over the United 1.ngdom are delivered here in an informative but remarkablyrefreshirg and entertaining manner;the hallmark of all of hisenterprises. ## Why Men REALLY Cheat: The Psychological Secrets of Male Infidelity 306.70811MARTYN STEWART Copyright ◎2014 Martyn Stewart The moral right of the author has been asserted. Apart from any fair dealing for the purposes of research or private study,or criticism or review,as permitted under the Copyright,Designs and PatentsAct 1988,this publication may only be reproduced,stored or transmitted,inany form or by any means,with the prior permission in writing of thepublishers,or in the case of reprographic reproduction in accordance withthe terms of licences issued by the Copyright Licensing Agency.Enquiriesconcerning reproduction outside those terms should be sent to the publishers. Matador9 Priory Business Park,Wistow Road,Kibworth Beauchamp,Leicestershire.LE8 ORXTel:(+44)1162792299Fax:(+44)1162792277Email:books@troubador.co.ukWeb:www.troubador.co.uk/matador ISBN 9781783061280 British Library Cataloguing in Publication Data.A catalogue record for this book is available from the British Library. Typeset by Troubador Publishing Ltd,Leicester,UKPrinted and bound in the UK by TJ International,Padstow,Cornwal Matador is an imprint ofTroubador Publishing Ltd MIX Papor from reoponslble sourcss FSC C013056 ## ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS To my mum,brothers and sisters for always believing in me andgiving me their unwavering support.To my daughter Shauntea foralways giving me a purpose to keep going! To my two closest friends who have always believed in mypotential. To Samantha Fielding,you are going to be an amazing editorThank you for your eye and skill with your contributions.Also toeverybody in the Troubador/Matador team that helped put thisproject together. To my friends and family-near and far-thank you for thesupport from the beginning.It has not been forgotten. I hope you enjoy my work. Digitized by the Internet Archivein 2022 with funding fromKahle/Austin Foundation https://archive.org/details/whymenreallychea0000stew CONTENTS Foreword ix THE STORY Chapter 1 -Wednesday evening 1 Chapter 2 -Why men REALLY cheat 6 Chapter 3 'Twenty-seven?" 16 Chapter 4-'You shouldn't be goin'through my stuff,Liv' -Nick 27 Chapter 5-The 'Common'Types 36 Chapter 6-An honest woman of you'-Maurice 48 Chapter 7 -The Rarer'Types 54 Chapter 8-'I wish my girl was as understanding as you' -Ramone 65 Chapter 9-The Appealing'Types 70 Chapter 10-'What other people do doesn't bother me’ -Cameron 88 Chapter 11-The 'Do Not Notice’Types 93 Chapter 12-"Why do girls always want to stop a guy having fun?" -Ben 104 Chapter 13-The 'Get Rid'Types 113 Chapter 14-I've never met anyone like you before -Richard 134 THE PSYCH

FAQs

What is B.E.T. theory in the book, and how is it used?

B.E.T. theory is presented in parts to assess a man's “type” by looking at the brain, the environment, and thought processing. A case study explains how the theory can work to interpret cheating-related patterns.

How does the book explain male excuses and cheating psychology?

It includes a chapter on the psychology behind male excuses and explores what the man is “made of.” The approach links cognitive and relationship factors to how cheating and relationship breakdown can develop.

Does the book provide a practical way to identify warning signs of infidelity?

Yes. It includes a guide titled “The Sure Fire Signs,” described as a quick way to identify a man's type, followed by sections on “shape-shifters” and “sleeping with the enemy.”

What does the “story” section focus on?

The “story” section presents multiple chapters built around different cheating “types,” with scenes and character voices that illustrate the patterns discussed later in the psychology sections.

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