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It is our hope that you will find continuing support and enrichment for your marriage by your active participation in Community. We are glad you have decided to use this WEDS Manual, which will provide you with an easy way to navigate your journey through the next 90 days.  \nWhy 90 days? Many experts say that it takes 90 days to develop a new action/behavior into a habit. (In fact, we hope that dialogue will become more than a habit, but rather a value for the rest of your lives. ) Interestingly, many years ago, 90 was also the number of questions that couples answered in their \"extended dialogue time,\" which eventually became 90 minutes of writing and 90 minutes of verbal dialogue on Sunday morning which still takes place in some experiences around the world.  \nThis WEDS Manual can help you see the true value of dialogue: to connect on the more intimate level of feelings in even the \"normal\" activities of life and to have a simple vehicle with which to mine the depths of your hearts, enabling you to have inner adventures of love as you discover each other in new and richer ways. You may even notice positive signs in your family and workplace as you implement the communication skills learned during your experience.  \nTHE VISION of Worldwide Marriage Encounter is \"Love one another as I have loved you.\"  \nWhen we respond to our Lord’s call and allow His Light to shine through our relationship, we become a visible sign of God’s Love. Our love for each other reflects Christ’s great unconditional love for us. Our light is needed in today’s world more than ever before. As we respond to our call to love each other and to share our love, our relationship becomes more trusting and intimate. Our families are strengthened by our compassion and acceptance. Our Church is renewed! All from the simple discipline of daily dialogue!  \nYou will achieve God’s desire for your marriage and your relationship when you continually use the five tools learned during your Marriage Encounter experience to keep your covenant love a priority:  \n1 – Constant attention to our communication  \n2 – Attention to our sexual relationship  \n3 – Couple prayer  \n4 – Journeying with others  \n5 – Re-evaluation  \nStriving to keep our covenant love alive is a wonderful journey. All of us in the Marriage Encounter Community are honored to travel with you.  \nChanging the world is a difficult task, but we believe we can make a difference beginning with one couple at a time. Define the “world” you can influence with your great love and commitment – your spouse, your family, your neighborhood or your church – and then open wide your doors and go out into the world! 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