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Copyright fuels creativity, encourages diverse voices, promotes free speech, and creates a vibrant culture. Thank you for buying an authorized edition of this book and for complying with copyright laws by not reproducing, scanning, or distributing any part of it in any form without permission. You are supporting writers and allowing Penguin to  \ncontinue to publish books for every reader.  \nLibrary of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data  \nNames: Parker, Priya, author.  \nTitle: The art of gathering: how we meet and why it matters / Priya Parker.  \nDescription: New York: Riverhead Books, 2018.  \nIdentifiers: LCCN 2017058605| ISBN 9781594634925 (hardback) | ISBN 9780698410879 (ebook) Subjects: LCSH: Self-actualization (Psychology) | Interpersonal relations. | BISAC: SELF-HELP / Personal Growth / General. | BUSINESS & ECONOMICS / Leadership. | PSYCHOLOGY / Interpersonal Relations.  \nClassification: LCC BF637. S4 P357 2018 | DDC 302/ . 1—dc23  \nLC record available at [https://lccn.loc.gov/2017058605](https://lccn.loc.gov/2017058605)  \nVersion_1  \nFor myAnand, who shows me daily the true meaning of awing and  \nhonoring  \nContents  \n• • •  \nTITLE PAGE  \nCOPYRIGHT  \nDEDICATION  \nINTRODUCTION  \nOne  DECIDE WHY YOU’RE REALLY GATHERING  \nTwo  CLOSE DOORS  \nThree  DON’T BE A CHILL HOST  \nFour  CREATE A TEMPORARY ALTERNATIVE WORLD  \nFive  NEVER START A FUNERAL WITH LOGISTICS  \nSix  KEEP YOUR BEST SELF OUT OF MY GATHERING  \nSeven  CAUSE GOOD CONTROVERSY  \nEight  ACCEPT THAT THERE IS AN END  \nNOTES  \nINDEX  \nABOUT THE AUTHOR  \nIntroduction  \nT  \n• • •  \nhe way we gather matters. Gatherings consume our days and help determine the kind of world we live in, in both our intimate and public realms. Gathering—the conscious bringing together of people  \nfor a reason—shapes the way we think, feel, and make sense of our world. Lawgivers have understood, perhaps as well as anyone, the power inherent in gatherings. In democracies, the freedom to assemble is one of the foundational rights granted to every individual. In countries descending into authoritarianism, one of the first things to go is the right to assemble. Why? Because of what can happen when people come together, exchange information, inspire one another, test out new ways of being together. And yet most of us spend very little time thinking about the actual ways in which we gather.  \nWe spend our lives gathering—first in our families, then in neighborhoods and playgroups, schools and churches, and then in meetings, weddings, town halls, conferences, birthday parties, product launches, board meetings, class and family reunions, dinner parties, trade fairs, and funerals. And we spend much of that time in uninspiring, underwhelming moments that fail to capture us, change us in any way, or connect us to one another.  \nAny number of studies support a notion that’s obvious to many of us: Much of the time we spend in gatherings with other people disappoints us.“With the occasional exception, my mood in conferences usually swings between boredom, despair, and rage,” Duncan Green, a blogger and specialist in international development, confesses in the Guardian. Green’stake isn’t unique to conferences: The 2015 State of Enterprise Work survey found that “wasteful meetings” were employees’ top obstacle to getting work done.  \nWe don’t even seem to be thrilled with the time we spend with our friends. A 2013 study, The State of Friendship in America 2013: A Crisis of Confidence, found that 75 percent of respondents were unsatisfied with those relationships. 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