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Before making a request, dealing with conflict, or starting a difficult social interaction, ask yourself: “What is my objective in this interaction?” Once you have a clear understanding of your desired outcome, use the acronym DEAR MAN to guide the conversation:  \n\n| \u003Cbr>D | Describe\u003Cbr>Clearly and concisely describe the facts of the situation. No opinions or interpretations!\u003Cbr>“I will be getting home late and won’t have time to cook dinner.” |\n| --- | --- |\n| E | Express\u003Cbr>State your feelings clearly to let others know how a situation affects you. Don’t expect others to read your mind. Try using the phrase: “I feel   because  ”\u003Cbr>“I feel exhausted because of my long day.” |\n| A | Assert\u003Cbr>Be direct. Say what you need clearly and concisely.\u003Cbr>“Since I have to work late tonight, could you cook dinner?” |\n| R | Reinforce\u003Cbr>Explain why it would be helpful to agree to your request. Express thanks if they consider it.\u003Cbr>“Thankyou! I’m looking forward to having dinner with you.” |\n| M | (Be) mindful\u003Cbr>Stay focused on the objective of the interaction and avoid being reactive or defensive. If necessary, calmly repeat your request. |\n| A | Appear confident\u003Cbr>Use body language to project confidence, even if you don’t feel it.\u003Cbr>Stand up straight, make appropriate eye contact, and avoid stammering or fidgeting. |\n| N\u003Cbr>| Negotiate\u003Cbr>Know the limits of what you’re willing to accept, but be willing to compromise within them.\u003Cbr>“I’ll wash the dishes if you cook dinner.” |\n\nRelationship Effectiveness: GIVE  \nRelationship effectiveness refers to improving a relationship or maintaining a good relationship. The acronym GIVE teaches skills for growing strong relationships:  \n\n| \u003Cbr>G | (Be) gentle\u003Cbr>Always be kind and respectful. Don’t attack, threaten, or express judgment during your interactions. People tend to respond better to gentleness than harshness. |\n| --- | --- |\n| I | (Show) interest\u003Cbr>Listen to the other person without interrupting. Instead of mind-reading, ask follow-up questions. Make it your goal to understand the other person, even when you disagree. |\n| V | Validate\u003Cbr>Outwardly acknowledge the other person’s thoughts and feelings. You can do this with words (e.g.,“This has been really difficult…”) or actions (e.g., helping the person) . |\n| E\u003Cbr>| (Use an) easy manner\u003Cbr>Laugh, smile, and be lighthearted. No one wants to be pushed around or bullied—being relaxed and likable is more likely to help you achieve your goals. |\n\nSelf-Respect Effectiveness: FAST  \nSelf-respect effectiveness refers to your ability to stay true to your values during social interactions. The acronym FAST teaches skills for protecting your self-respect:  \n\n| \u003Cbr>F | (Be) fair\u003Cbr>Consider each person’s perspective and be fair. Don’t take advantage of others, and say“no” if you believe others are taking advantage of you. |\n| --- | --- |\n| A | (No) apologies\u003Cbr>Don’t over-apologize. You never need to apologize for making a request or for disagreeing. Save apologies for when you’ve made a mistake. |\n| S | Stick to your values\u003Cbr>Develop an understanding of your values (the things that matter most to you and your morals) . Know your red lines, and be willing to stand up for them. |\n| T\u003Cbr>| (Be) truthful\u003Cbr>Avoid dishonesty such as exaggeration, manipulation, and outright lying. There might be a time and place for “white lies,” but even these should be used carefully. |","cbCaioQxGFlKxsqQ","https://ap.wps.com/l/cbCaioQxGFlKxsqQ","pdf",45832,"English","# Objective Effectiveness: DEAR MAN\n## Describe\n## Express\n## Assert\n## Reinforce\n## Mindful\n## Appear confident\n## Negotiate\n# Relationship Effectiveness: GIVE\n## Gentle\n## Show interest\n## Validate\n## Use an easy manner\n# Self-Respect Effectiveness: FAST\n## Be fair\n## (No) apologies\n## Stick to your values\n## (Be) truthful","[{\"question\":\"What does DEAR MAN help you do in social situations?\",\"answer\":\"DEAR MAN helps you pursue your objective—getting what you want—by guiding how to describe the facts, express feelings, assert your needs, reinforce why agreement is helpful, stay mindful, appear confident, and negotiate within limits.\"},{\"question\":\"How does GIVE support relationship effectiveness?\",\"answer\":\"GIVE improves or maintains relationships by encouraging gentleness and respect, listening with genuine interest, outwardly validating the other person’s thoughts and feelings, and using an easy, light manner to avoid pressure or bullying.\"},{\"question\":\"What skills does FAST teach for self-respect during conflicts?\",\"answer\":\"FAST protects self-respect by teaching you to be fair, avoid excessive apologies, stick to your values and “red lines,” and stay truthful—avoiding exaggeration, manipulation, and outright lying.\"}]","Interpersonal Effectiveness Skills - Objective Effectiveness (DEAR MAN), Relationship Effectiveness (GIVE), Self-Respect Effectiveness (FAST) | PDF",1791932679]