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And that can be extremely frustrating. And as a man it’s our job to move things forward. In fact, I once taught a class of 17 women in Singapore and they all agreed that their biggest complaint in men was that they didn’t escalate fast enough.  \nEscalation has to do with anything that moves the interaction closer to sex, such as touching, kissing or sexualizing the conversation. Use this as your go-to-guide when you aren’t sure how to move things to the next level. Before we get into all the ways to ramp up the escalation and sexual tension so you can move things to the bedroom fast, there are a few key points you need to keep in mind:  \n5 Crucial Key Points  \n\\#1. Breaking The Touch Barrier ASAP  \nBreak the touch barrier sooner than later. If you wait too long then that first touch will seem awkward and weird. So make sure to touch her as soon as possible, which is typically when you first meet her .  \nFor example: During the day usually a handshake, and/or a kiss on the cheek might be appropriate. At a bar you might give her a high-five or put your arm around her . On a date you would give her a hug when you greet her . In the next section I’ll reveal the 9 Types of Touching.  \n\\#2 . Two Steps Forward, One Step Back  \nIf you keep putting on the gas then she will put on the brakes. So instead of touching and escalating as much as you can, remember to always take a step back. Since touching releases the feel-good bonding hormone, oxytocin, when you take away your  \ntouch she will want more. But if you keep touching her or escalating non-stop then she will likely get creeped out .  \nExamples:  \n1. Put your arm around her and telling her you like her and then turning away from her .  \n2. Kissing her and ending the tongue wrestling before she does and saying,“That’s all you get, no more for you .”  \n3.“I would so throw you against the wall and have my way with you right now.  \nToo bad there are all these people here .”  \n\\#3. Say Sexual Things In A Casual Voice  \nIf you asked,“What’s your favorite sexual position?,”(you will learn how to ask this in the following pages) in a slow, seductive tone it might come off too cheesy or sleazy. Instead, say sexual things casually, as ifit were no big deal for you to talk about sexual things. This shows a sense of comfort and security in your sexuality. The best time to use the seductive voice is when you are giving a direct compliment during the day (in a noisy bar or club that tonality doesn’t have the same effect), while talking about nonsexual things or before/during foreplay. A nice rule of thumb is to say sexual things ina casual voice and casual things in a sexual voice . Of course there are many exceptions to this, and make sure not to overdue the sexual voice .  \n\\#4 . Don’t Be Afraid To Talk About Sex  \nThis will vary between women and different cultures, but most women around the world love the topic of sex . It’s almost always a topic on the cover of women’s magazines. So don’t be afraid or ashamed to bring it up. I suggest bringing it up indirectly at first, such as through a story or game (you will learn plenty here), before going direct,“I am going to have my way with you.” Direct typically works better later in the interaction when she is already really turned on by you .  \n\\#5. Warning: These won’t work unless you understand how to truly communicate with women. Women speak a secret language. To master the art of talking to women, get The Language of Attraction at [http://TheLanguageOfAttraction.com](http://TheLanguageOfAttraction.com)  \n9 Types Of Touching  \nThe following are various ways to initiate touch:  \n1. Platonic-Greeting or saying good bye with a handshake, hug, kiss on the cheek. 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