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Brotherson, MFT, [StrengtheningMarriage.com](StrengtheningMarriage.com), (Jun 2014)  \nPURPOSE OF DISCLOSURE  \n􀁸 PURPOSE--To provide a safe place for the addict and the partner to give and receive the disclosure in a safe and structured environment. To clear the slate for complete honesty and transparency as the couple begins the process of healing, repairing and rebuilding trust in the relationship. Shame, secrecy and self-loathing are fuels for addiction, so full disclosure can help stop fueling the compulsive sexual behavior.  \n􀁸 RECOMMENDATIONS--Disclosure is recommended only for those who intend to repair and rebuild the relationship. Disclosure is not recommended if either spouse is sick at the time of disclosure, or if either party has already visited with a divorce attorney. Disclosure is also not recommended when there is potential for physical or emotional violence or abuse. Disclosing before the addict is fully ready to make a disclosure (forced disclosure), a partial disclosure, staggered disclosure (multiple small bits of disclosure) and non-disclosure can all be very damaging.  \nPREPARATION PROCESS  \n1. [ADDICT ] --Preparatory Therapy Sessions. Have addict come in for a session or two to prepare themselves for the disclosure and to process what they already know about the general situation. Recognize that this whole process will be painful for all. Feelings of betrayal, loss of self-esteem, anger, and shame will likely occur.  \n2. [ADDICT] --Sobriety. If the addict can have some sobriety from the compulsive behavior and be actively working a program of recovery, that can be helpful in the process of repairing the relationship and rebuilding trust. Active recovery includes:  \na. Attending 12-Step meetings--Sexaholics Anonymous (SA), Sex Addicts Anonymous (SAA), Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous (SLAA), etc. (See [http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/sex-lies](http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/sex-lies)trauma/201108/sex-and-love-addicts-how-find-the-right-12-step-group-you)  \nb. Engaging in step work with a sponsor  \nc. Reaching out for emotional support as needed through phone calls, etc. with sponsor, accountability partners, fellow 12-step members in recovery  \nd. Continuing to be rigorously honest and transparent with self and others even when facing disapproval or other consequences  \ne. Staying “present” in the relationship  \nf. Going to therapy and looking inward  \ng. Practicing good self-care  \nh. Living in your integrity  \n3. [PARTNER] --Effects of the Addiction/Behavior Letter. Have the spouse/partner write a letter to the disclosing partner regarding the impact/effects of the addiction/behavior on him/her. Also have the partner share what they need in order to keep working on the relationship. He or she is also welcome to bring any questions they have for the addict.  \n4. [ADDICT] --Disclosure Letter. Have the addict write a Full Disclosure Letter to the partner (see content ideas and sample letter) . Keep it in a safe place while writing it, so accidental disclosure doesn't happen. Addict must determine their reasons for their disclosure. Are they ready for possible consequences? Review the letter with your therapist prior to the disclosure session.  \n5. [ADDICT] --Disclosure Letter Content  \na. First person. Write as if speaking directly to your spouse.  \nb. Accept responsibility. Accept full responsibility for the behavior. Clearly state you were wrong in engaging in the behaviors.  \nc. Not partner's fault. Make it clear that it is/was not the partner's fault.  \nd. No excuses. Focus on the facts. Explain what you've learned about yourself throughout this process without making any excuses.  \ne. Honesty. Be honest and transparent with yourself and your spouse.  \nf. Appropriate detail. In the disclosure letter, share the major elements of the acting-out behaviors but avoids the \"gory details,\" which would just be harmful or unnecessary to the partner.  \ng. 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