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For example, if you tease her three times in a row she might think you are being mean . So make sure to mix in normal, getting-to-know-her type conversation as well.  \nBody Language  \nBody language is either going to make or break your conversations . Make sure to stand tall with open, relaxed, confident body language. If you are slouching or have closed-off body language then what you say is unlikely to work.  \nVoice Tonality  \nMake sure to speak slowly, articulating what you are saying with long pauses and a deep tonality. Speaking fast will make you appear nervous, while pausing makes you appear more confident, draws her in and makes her more interested.  \nEye Contact  \nIf you constantly look down you will appear scared and a woman cannot be attracted to a man who is afraid of her. Keep at least 80-90% eye contact throughout the interaction. It’s okay to look away sometimes as to not appear overly interested or invested. However, I recommend 100% eye contact during the opener .  \nBeing Grounded  \nThese techniques will not have a powerful effect if all of your energy is in your head because you are nervous and over-analyzing what to say. Instead, you must be calm and grounded. Some refer to this as being in a mindful or present state where you are not thinking about the past or future, but fully in tune with the present moment . Mindful practitioners suggest taking deep breaths, focusing your awareness on your body and paying full attention to your environment to get into the present state . Meditation can also help you become more grounded in your every day life; as well as exercise, sports and anything that uses your body.  \nCONVERSATION CHEAT SHEET  \nDAY TIME OPENERS  \nIt’s usually best to go direct, stating your interest right away, during the day because women are in a hurry and they general don’t get as many compliments during the daytime compared to night.  \n\"Hey real quick, this is totally random, but I just saw you over here and I thought you were absolutely stunning. I had to come over and risk embarrassment and say‘hi’.\"  \nSay this slowly with a deep low tonality. You can replace the world “stunning”with the compliment of your choice .  \n“Do you know where Starbucks is?” [she answers] “Actually I’m not even looking for Starbucks, I just thought you were absolutely adorable and wanted to meet you.”  \nGreat to use if you are experiencing anxiety because you can trick your mind by thinking,“I’m just going to ask her for directions .”  \n“Can you help me with something? [she answers] Okay let’s say you are this (describe yourself) tall rocker guy with blue eyes and you are talking to a (describe her) cute green eyed blonde girl about 5’6”, what would you say to her if you wanted to flirt with her?”  \nIf she says,“I don’t know”, you can say,“But you’re a girl you’re supposed to be good at this whole flirting thing.”Credit Robbie Kramer .  \n*Remember not to rush the opener. Speaking slowly, pausing for effect creates a lot of suspense, anticipation, confusion and sexual tension. Maintain good eye contact .  \n“Hi, I don’t believe we’ve met yet. I’m Matt.”  \nThis works really well at a social event like a meetup group, class, seminar, etc . It presupposes that you must know a lot of people .  \nI was just walking out of the store and you stopped me dead in my tracks. So I figured I’d say‘hi’.  \nThis is considered an implied compliment. It will still flatter her and make her day even though you didn’t actually give her a compliment .  \nCONVERSATION CHEAT SHEET  \nBAR & CLUB OPENERS  \nGirls go to bars to have fun so make sure you open with a fun and positive vibe .  \n“Hi I’m Matt, I just think fun people should know each other. You are fun right?”  \nEvery woman w","cbCaiez9BfMEDRZn","https://ap.wps.com/l/cbCaiez9BfMEDRZn","pdf",1093183,23,"English","# RULES TO REMEMBER\n## Change It Up\n## Body Language\n## Voice Tonality\n## Eye Contact\n## Being Grounded\n# DAY TIME OPENERS\n## Direct interest opener\n## Starbucks directions opener\n## Flirting script via help question\n## Anxiety-friendly opener\n# BAR & CLUB OPENERS\n## Fun and positive vibe opener\n## Subtle challenge opener\n## Us vs. them hot people opener\n# KEEPING THE CONVERSATION GOING\n## Qualification Questions","[{\"question\":\"What should you do to prevent a conversation from losing effect?\",\"answer\":\"Avoid repeating the same behavior or conversation pattern over and over. Mix in normal getting-to-know-her style talk so it doesn’t become stale.\"},{\"question\":\"How does body language affect the outcome of the interaction?\",\"answer\":\"Body language can make or break the conversation. 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