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It describes four modes, focusing in depth on Freeze: observable behaviors, internal awareness, body sensations, and the inner emotional narrative. It also outlines what support can help, and briefly contrasts with Flight, where hyperactivity, threat responses, running away, and disruption show up when unstructured time or expectations feel unsafe.","# What Survival Looks Like At Home\n\nHelen Townsend  \nSomething unexpected and veryfrightening happened to me thatmade me fear for my safety.  \nAs a result,my brain and body are'stuck in trauma time'as a way toprotect me from the scary thinghappening again.It's like my braincan't learn that Iam actually saferight now.  \nTo cope with the feeling that I′mconstantly in danger,I swingbetween different survival modes tokeep safe when I feel scared.  \nwww.innenworldwork.co.uk  \nInnerWorld  \nWork  \nI would really like your help to feel safe and regulatedso l can believe that our world together is safe again.By travelling with me out of my survival state and intoa calmer frame of mind,I may be more open again tolistening to what you have to say,to learn from ourlife together,play safely,gain some control over mybody,enjoy my relationships and understand that myworld with you is a safe and loving place to be.I would love you to see thesehidden feelings rather than mysurvival state behavior,I do wantto relax and enjoy our lifetogether butI need your helpto do this.www.innerworldwork.co.ukInnerWorldWork  \n## Freeze\n\nFlight  \nThis booklet tells you about the 4 differentsurvival states that l swing between:  \n## Fight\n\n## What l look like in Freeze..\n\n·Bored,not interested  \n·Confused,forgetful  \n·Distracted,not listening  \n·Clumsy  \n·Talking about something else,moving you on  \n·Not moving to where you've asked me to be  \n·Standing still/sitting still (hanging/lounging about)  \n·Finding it hard to stay focused on what you've asked me to do  \n·Scanning the room  \nreeNe  \n·Wide eyed,my pupils might dilate  \n·Zoned out,daydreaming,staring into space  \n## What l am aware of in Freeze...\n\n·My heart is beating faster,my breathing is faster  \n·My brain is slowing down  \n·lam under attack  \n·Ican't do what you have asked  \n·lam terrified  \n·lam trying to think of something that makes me feel safe  \n·Background noises,I can hear what is going on aroundme without needing to specifically focus  \nFreeze  \n·The tone of your voices rather than the words,I can hearyou're getting frustrated with me  \n·Feeling deeply anxious  \n·I need to get ready to protect myself  \n·lam looking for where the danger is coming from  \nHow my body feels in Freeze..  \n·  Frozen brain  \n·   Under attack  \n·  IfI don't move you can't see me  \n·  Everything feels like a dream  \n·  Ready to fight and defend myself  \n·  Very scared  \n·  In a fog,disconnected,numb  \nFreeze  \n·  My pulse rate is going up  \n·  My muscles are tensing,my hands might clench into fists  \n·  Some sounds are louder and some more distant,I can'tfocus on what is being said but I can clearly hear the tone.  \n## What's happening in my Inner World..\n\n·lam a 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