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Husband has authority over the  \nwife's body. I am not my own. When I got married, I gave myself to you.  \nSelena: But if my husband desires it, I can do that. That is kind and loving and sacrificial. All things good of me to do that.  \nRyan: A husband shouldn't be asking that of his wife. Wife shouldn't feel like she has  \nto allow that act. That is a depraved act. It's very clearly painted as such in scripture.  \nSelena: The Journal of Sex Research in 2022 says that couples with strong emotional bonds report 40% higher sexual frequency.  \nRyan: You know, I think the Lord has given us lots of freedom in the marriage bed to  \ndo lots of things so long as it's to the edification of one another. I don't believe pain is on the table for married couples. And without faith in Christ, without knowing what He did, we're powerless. We're dead in our sin. We need to be made alive in Christ. What do you do if you're a husband and you find yourself not desiring sex as often and your wife still does?  \n[00:00:57] \u003Cmusic>  \nRyan: Okay, today we're going to talk about everyone's favorite topic. And that is  \nwhat, Selena?  \nSelena: Sex.  \nRyan: Why do you... I don't understand.  \nSelena: It's private.  \nRyan: It is private. Very private. That's good. But talking about it is important  \nbecause, you know, it's not something to get right. Excuse me. It's not something that's easy to get right. It can be a challenge.  \nSelena: It can be complicated.  \nRyan: And so what can happen is you take this very important aspect of a marriage.  \nIt's very important. So important, in fact, that it's a command as we'll read today. And it's very important, but it's also very private. And it's very important that it stays private.  \nSo what can happen is you have people that feel isolated. They feel shame. They don't know how to deal with stuff. They don't necessarily go to the right places to find answers. And so people are surfing the internet trying to find answers.  \nSelena: Yikes.  \nRyan: Because they don't want to be known in that way because there's maybe some  \nshame or some dysfunction. Well, today we're going to answer a question. I don't think this question comes from a place of shame or dysfunction.  \nSelena: No.  \nRyan: I think it comes from a place of just wanting to do what we're talking about, is  \ntalk about this important thing in a way that's healthy in a forum that does honor to God, it does honor to the institution of marriage, it does honor to what sex is and what it was intended for and the purposes that it accomplishes in marriage.  \nSo today we're going to talk specifically to marriages where the husband has had a reduced sex drive. What do you do if you're a husband and you find yourself not desiring sex as often and your wife still does? What are you to do if you're a wife and your husband hasn't been desiring you or hasn't been initiating like he used to? What do you think about that? How do you process that? How do you grow? So we're going to talk about that on the other side.  \n[00:02:53] \u003Cmusic>  \nRyan: All right. Welcome back, listener, viewer. It's our forever joy to do the Fierce  \nMarriage Podcast.  \nSelena: It is.  \nRyan: We've said this before and I'm just going to keep saying it. There's not a lot of  \nnew things that we can talk about on the podcast when it comes to marriage, but we've realized that our whole mission is not to always have the new thing to talk about. It's to show up so that you've got somewhere to go where you can get a new conversation that is on a timeless topic, which happens to be marriage and God's perspective on it.  \nSelena: I think I would add, if I can  \nRyan: Please do.  \nSelena: ...that our job is to highlight the old truths of Scripture that outweigh and","cbCaitjpYMq9mldV","https://ap.wps.com/l/cbCaitjpYMq9mldV","pdf",298749,"English","# Episode Overview\n## God’s Perspective on Marital Intimacy\n## Addressing Shame and Isolation\n## Questions from Couples\n## Processing Desire Differences","[{\"question\":\"What should a wife understand when her husband has a low sex drive?\",\"answer\":\"The guidance emphasizes that intimacy should not become something a wife feels pressured to allow. 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