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A more in-depth Worksheet for Getting Honest About What You’re Actually Experiencing  \n• What’s This Really About: A Worksheet for Identifying the Unmet Need Underneath the Limerence  \n• Breaking the Limerence Cycle: A Personal Action Plan for Starving the Loop and Rebuilding Your Focus  \nABBY MEDCALF .COM  \nAm I in Limerence or Love?  \nA Clarity Checklist  \nSometimes what feels like love is love. And sometimes what feels like love is limerence, an involuntary, consuming state built on uncertainty and the desperate need to be wanted back. The two can feel almost identical from the inside, especially when you're in the middle of it.  \nThis checklist isn't about telling you what to feel. It's about helping you see what's actually driving your feelings, so you can respond with clarity instead of reacting from the intensity.  \nInstructions  \nThink about the person you’re currently consumed by or most recently were. Read each statement and rate how true it is for you right now.  \nUse this scale:  \n1 = Not true at all  \n2 = Rarely true  \n3 = Sometimes true  \n4 = Often true  \n5 = Very often true  \n6 = Extremely true  \nThere’s no neutral option on purpose. Clarity matters more than comfort.  \nSection 1: Signs of Limerence  \n\n| Statement | SCORE |\n| --- | --- |\n| My feelings for this person intensify when I'm not sure how they feel about me. |  |\n| I find myself replaying our conversations, analyzing their words for hidden meaning. |  |\n| A single warm message from them can turn my whole day around. |  |\n| I’ve noticed I idealize this person and have trouble seeing their flaws clearly. |  |\n| My mood depends heavily on whether I’ve heard from them recently. |  |\n| I spend significant time fantasizing about a future with them, especially the moment they finally choose me. |  |\n| I feel physically restless or anxious when I haven’t had contact with them for awhile. |  |\n| I’m much more focused on whether they want me than on whether I actually want them. |  |\n\n| I find it hard to stop thinking about them even when I’m trying to focus on something else. |  |\n| --- | --- |\n| The uncertainty about how they feel is part of what makes this so intense. |  |\n\nSection 1 Total:    \nSection 2: Signs of Real Love  \n\n| Statement | SCORE |\n| --- | --- |\n| I love this person for who they actually are, including their ordinary or imperfect qualities. |  |\n| I feel grounded in how I feel about them, even when there’s some distance or silence between us. |  |\n| I genuinely care about their wellbeing, not just about how they feel about me. |  |\n| I can see them clearly, their strengths and their limitations, and I still want to be with them. |  |\n| When I imagine a future together, I’m picturing a real relationship, not just the feeling of being chosen. |  |\n| My feelings for them have stayed relatively consistent, even as I’ve gotten to know them better. |  |\n| Being with them brings me a sense of ease and comfort, not just excitement or anxiety. |  |\n| I feel seen and known by them, not just intensely drawn to them. |  |\n| I’d still want to be with them if all uncertainty were removed and I knew for sure they were fully committed to me. |  |\n| Thinking about them feels warm and steady, not urgent or consuming. |  |\n\nSection 2 Total:    \nWhat Your Scores Are Telling You  \nAdd up each section separately.  \nIf your Section 1 score is significantly higher than Section 2:  \nWhat you’re experiencing has many of the hallmarks of limerence. 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