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Plus, get updates on new releases, deals, recommended reads, and more from Simon & Schuster. Click below to sign up  \nand see terms and conditions.  \nCLICK HERE TO SIGN UP  \nAlready a subscriber? Provide your email again so we can register this ebook and send you more of what you like to read. You will continue to receive exclusive offers in  \nyour inbox.  \n[OceanofPDF.com](OceanofPDF.com)  \n[OceanofPDF.com](OceanofPDF.com)  \n[ PREFACE ]  \nWhat If Contentment Were Easy?  \nWe’ll go in just a minute, please just sit still,” a mother says to her young son as she fishes a book out of her bag and hands it to him. The boy sets it down immediately—he is not interested in that. Instead, he is focused on the distinctive sensations of the coffee shop where we find ourselves: the whine of the milk-frothing wand as baristas fulfill orders; the swoosh-clonk of the door opening and shutting as patrons enter and depart; and above all else, the lush delights of the furnishings. He is entranced by the space and its contents, exercising a wonder innate in children that adulthood oչen evaporates.  \nInspired by the boy’s curiosity, I had begun to notice, too. These days, most coffee shops, restaurants, lounges (and just about everyplace) feel the same: antiseptic, with featureless surfaces and hard, uncomfortable chairs. But not this joint. It boasts sumptuous, tall curtains and wide, plush couches. The mother and her kid are seated at one of the oversize sofas, which is upholstered in a thick mossgreen velvet. In front of it sits a bronze coffee table with long, scalloped waves embossed on its sides.  \nNow that I’m watching them, I see the problem—or what themother perceives as the problem, anyway. The boy is entranced. He  \nswirls his hand around the flat of the sofa cushion, following it to the arm and then the folds that adorn its side and back. Silent and slow, he makes his way around the whole couch. As he rounds the front edge to return to his mom and seat, he swaps one hand for the other, letting his fingertips course across the metal ripples of the coffee table.  \n“Stop touching everything!” the mother pleads, apologizing to the friend she has met here in between appointments—or whatever motherly demands no doubt strain her time and sanity. She scoops the boy back into the seat next to her and nudges the book back into his hands.  \nBut hold up a minute. The mother is also touching things. Like everyone else who bought a coffee at this shop, her drink came in ak raչ-brown paper cup embossed with ridges that run up and down at a diagonal. The ridges are meant to make the cup cool enough to the touch so a patron can hold it comfortably, but in so doing, they offer a surprisingly gratifying tactile delight. I notice the woman slowly rotating the cup, held in two hands, letting the ridges graze her thumb s and fingertips. And even though I’m sitting at a distance from her, I know from performing the same act with my drink that, when spun like this, the vessel’s lid emits a hollow sound of increasingly lower pitches as it empties, like a bottle whistle.  \nWithout knowing them personally, I surmise that the mother and her son faced a problem that affl icts us all: Their lives, like mine and yours and everyone’s, are overwhelming. The mother, by the looks of it, is trying to maintain a relationship with her friend while also managing her kid, along with who knows what else I couldn’t discern from eavesdropping. The child, for his part, surely hopes to survive a  \nboring errand with Mom without losing his mind or causing her excessive grief. This is big stuff, and heavy stuff: being a good parent, child, or friend. Those types of goals snowball into even bigger ones—find ing and maintaining love; securing and advancing in a satisfying career; making a difference in the world (or at least in your community). 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