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 \nTHE SACRED SEARCH  \nPublished by David C Cook 4050 Lee Vance Drive Colorado Springs, CO 80918 U.S.A.  \nIntegrity Music Limited, a Division of David C Cook Brighton, East Sussex BN1 2RE, England The graphic circle C logo is a registered trademark of David C Cook.  \nAll rights reserved. Except for brief excerpts for review purposes, no part of this book may be reproduced or used in any form without written permission from the publisher.  \nThe website addresses recommended throughout this book are offered as aresource to you. These websites are not intended in any way to be or imply an endorsement on the part of David C Cook, nor do we vouch for their content. Some names have been changed to protect privacy. Permission has been obtained for use of all other personal accounts.  \nUnless otherwise noted, all Scripture quotations are taken from THE HOLY BIBLE, NEW INTERNATIONAL VERSION®, NIV® Copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984, 2011 by Biblica, Inc.® Used by permission. All rights reserved worldwide. Scripture quotations marked ESV are taken from the ESV® Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®), copyright © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved; NASB are taken from the New American Standard Bible®, copyright © 1960, 1995, 2020 by The Lockman Foundation. Used by permission. (www. [Lockman.org](Lockman.org)); NKJV are taken from the New King James Version®. Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson. Used by permission. All rights reserved. The author has added italics to Scripture quotations for emphasis.  \nLibrary of Congress Control Number 2012951904 ISBN 978-1-8307-4-8191-1  \neISBN 978-1-8307-8192-8  \n© 2013, 2021 Gary Thomas Published in association with Yates & Yates, [www.yates2.com](www.yates2.com).  \nFirst edition published in 2013 © Gary Thomas, ISBN 978-1-4347-0489-4 The Team: Michael Covington, Stephanie Bennett, Judy Gillispie, James Hershberger, Susan Murdock  \nCover Design: James Hershberger  \nPrinted in the United States of America  \nSecond Edition 2021  \n1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10  \n011421  \nThis book is dedicated in celebration of my son Graham’s marriage to Molly on July 12, 2014.  \nMay you both grow in grace and love for eachother as you enjoy the blessing of a lifelong love.  \nContents  \nAcknowledgments 13  \n1. A Tale of Two Tears 15  \n2. The Great Exception 23  \n3. Infatuated with Infatuation 30  \n4. You May Not Want What You Think You Want 43  \n5. Soul Mate or Sole Mate? 53  \n6. A Match Made in Heaven? 67  \n7. Walk toward the Music 73  \n8. Better to Marry Than Burn 81  \n9. What’s Your Style? 88  \n10. Can You Climb a Mountain Together? 107  \n11. Making a Marriage 121  \n12. Is Anybody in Charge? 134  \n13. You’re Looking for a Complement, Not a Clone 142  \n14. Dating with Intention 155  \n15. Your Brain on Sex 163  \n16. Problem People 184  \n17. How Would Jesus Date? 194  \n18. Knowing When It’s No 202  \nEpilogue: A New Vision 217  \nNotes 221  \nAuthor Information 224  \nAcknowledgments  \nI’d like to thank those who read previous versions of this book and offered many helpful comments: Lisa Thomas, Steve and Rebecca Wilke, Mary Kay Smith, John Card, Steve and Candice Watters, Lindsey Thomas, and Jay Fields. A special thanks is also due to Dr. Ed Young and our home church, Second Baptist in Houston, Texas, for the support base they provide. I am also very grateful tomy agents, Curtis Yates and Mike Salisbury of Yates and Yates, for their friendship and partnership for so many years; and to the David C Cook team: Stephanie Bennett and Michael Covington. It’s an honor to be part of your team.  \nFor this second edition, I’m grateful to Andi Perkins and Matt Clark for making further suggestions on the update.  \n13  \nA Tale of Two Tears  \nI’d like to share two true scenarios with you. 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