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Suicide is less a decision than a reaction. I believed that if they could learn what is being reacted to, then we would have an opportunity to interrupt the suicidal impulse- Norman Farberow (as cited by Dovel, 2015, p. 661) .  \nIt has long been a valued consensus that we are pleasureseeking creatures and will try to avoid pain at all costs. Freud (1922) suggested that all decision-making derives from these two drives. Sadly, for some, the ultimate price to pay to cease this pain is to see suicide as a feasible option. The purpose of this article is to present an overview of the psychology and aetiology of suicide and to examine what can be useful when therapists encounter someone who has been bereaved by suicide. Essentially, this article will consider how to best help the  \nbereaved “break through the walls of silence surrounding” them, without interrupting the grieving process. Ultimately, for healing to occur, we must trust the importance of just being present with the “inner spirit touching inner spirit”(Rogers, as cited by O’Rourke, 2017a) .  \nThe Psychology and Aetiology of Suicide  \nTherapists are taught that human beings possess a growth tendency, the drive to self-actualise, to become themselves to the fullest degree (Rogers, 2011) . How then do we make sense of the suicidal, whose thoughts, feelings and behaviours appear antithetical to this? If, as Francis Bacon proclaimed, knowledge itself is power, then therapists would be well served in exploring the psychological and aetiological underpinnings to this silent, devastating killer. Furthermore, if we lack knowledge of this soul-destroying phenomenon, what support will we be to survivors – those coping with  \nthe ‘shock, of water encountering a rock’ after suicide. Suicide is synonymous with silence. For years, it was the greatest taboo, with Ireland being “the last European country to decriminalize it” (Leenars, 2008) . Thankfully, times have changed.  \nWith the enactment of the Criminal Law (Suicide) Act 1993, our country witnessed a growing willingness to confront the shadows of suicide. Anton Leenars (2008), in his seminal work on suicide around the world, finishes his review of Ireland stating:  \n“Ireland, indeed, may well bethe best example where there is now a growing healthy balance between death and suicide, even while the country embraces a family/community approach to death and dying. Once more, inan appropriate way, Ireland is an exception” (Leenars, 2008) .  \nLeenars (1995, p.54 as cited by O’Rourke, 2017b) asserts,“Suicide is best defined as an event with biological, psychological, interpersonal, situational, sociological, cultural and existential components.” Moreover, suicidologist Edwin Schneidman (1985) emphasised,‘suicide is everyone’s business.’ Consequently, a deeper understanding of suicide is required. While it is not possible to explore each of Leenars’ suggested antecedents, the reader will be presented with a literature review of some aetiological factors.  \nSubstance Abuse  \n“No one ever tells us to stop running away…the advice we usually get is to sweeten it up, smooth it over, take a pill,  \n Irish Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy 13  \n ~~ ~~ Volume 17 • Issue 2 • Summer 2017  \nor distract ourselves, but by all means make it go away.”(Chödrön, 2000, p.5) .  \nIf humans are pleasure-seeking creatures, then substance use is perhaps the epitome of hedonism. On the surface, the ingestion of mood-altering substances is an attempt to seek pleasure; however, it is unquestionably often an attempt to avoid pain. Substance use and suicide are inevitably linked. Theodora Fine (2008, p.11) informs us that 90% of individuals who complete suicide have a mental health or substance disorder. 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