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Lynn Gilliard  \nLet Him Chase You  \nPublished by: Venup Publishing  \n[LetHimChaseYou.com](LetHimChaseYou.com)  \n[Copyright 2013 L. Lynn Gilliard](Copyright 2013 L. Lynn Gilliard)  \nAll rights reserved.  \nNo part of this book may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic or mechanical, including photocopying, recording or by any information storage and retrieval system, without written permission from the author or publisher, except for the inclusion of brief quotations in a review.  \nDisclaimer: This guide is written for informational and educational purposes only. No warranty or guarantee is offered to the reader as to the effects of using the contents of this book. Each situation is different and thus, results vary. The author and publisher do not assume and hereby disclaim any liability to any  \nparty.  \nNeither the author, publisher or any associated entities assume any responsibility for errors, omissions, or contrary interpretations of the subject matter herein. The views expressed herein are those of the author alone and shouldn’t be taken as expert instruction or a command. Each reader is fully responsible  \nfor his or her own actions.  \nEve’s Story  \n15 days have gone by since their first date. 3 days have gone by since he last called or texted her. 7 days have gone by since he last set up a  \ndate with her.  \nAnd it just so happens that 7 days have gone by since they first had  \nsex.  \nFinally, on the 8th day of sitting by quietly waiting for a date invitation, Eve decides to break down and call him.  \n“I just don’t think I’m ready for anything serious right now. I’m not ready to date (insert other excuse),” Thomas says when she asks him what’s going on.“We can still hang out sometimes though.”  \nEve and Thomas have sex a couple more times--that’s what he really meant by “hanging out” after all. Then he completely “ghosts” her. No  \nreplies, no contact.  \n5 weeks later Eve finds out through Facebook that Thomas is “in a rela  \ntionship” with another girl he just met.  \nWhy did Thomas make the other girl his girlfriend after a short period of time but only thought Eve was fit to be his “friend with benefits?”  \nKeep reading this guide to find out exactly why, and how you can avoid being treated like Eve in the future.  \nA Man’s Hierarchy of Desires/Needs in a Woman  \n􀀼  \nA Looker  \nA Lover A Supporter Who Believes in Him  \nA Friend and Confidant  \nA Woman’s Hierarchy of Desires/Needs in a Man  \n􀀼  \nA Protector  \nA Provider A Looker/Lover  \nA Friend and Confidant  \nWhy I’m Writing This Guide  \nA lot of relationship experts teach women how to “catch” a man, as if he is the prize and you as the woman should be the pursuer. Therein lies a lot of the dysfunction and confusion that many women and men have when it comes to dating and relationships today. 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