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You will love better, trust better, pray better, and encourage better because of this book. 􀀈ank you, Juli, for this gi􀀚 to marriages around the world!”  \n—Jamie Ivey, bestselling author and host of 􀀈e Happy Hour with Jamie Ivey podcast  \n“In truth, I cannot say enough about the beauty, power, and potency of this book. 􀀈ese words found me at the exact moment of need in my own marriage, and I found myself wanting to highlight line a􀀚er line as simple yet profound truths were so clearly articulated. Juli has done a masterful job of weaving together personal narrative, biblical exposition, practical teaching, and prophetic illumination of God’s heart and divine design of man, woman, and the mystery of marriage. 􀀈ese pages held keys to understanding the ‘whys’ behind some of my own angsts, and helped me tangibly grasp some of the inner wirings of my husband’s complex and powerful design. I am so grateful to have this resource and am grateful for Juli’s revisitation to this timeless impartation and exhortation. I wholeheartedly encourage every woman to dive into the depths ofthis work, willfully inviting the Holy Spirit to minister to your heart where and how He intends. I am walking away humbled, encouraged, equipped and impassioned to continue investing intentionally into my marriage for the glory of God!”  \n—Mo (Isom) Aiken, New York Times bestselling author of Wreck My Life: Journeying from Broken to Bold, Sex, Jesus and the Conversations the Church Forgot, and Fully Known: An Invitation to True Intimacy with God  \n“I’ve been married over forty years, and I have read a lot of books on being a wife. Finding the Hero in Your Husband is a must read! I wish I had this book when I was younger. It would have saved me from making many mistakes  \nthat caused a lot of pain. Read it now! You will be glad you did, and your husband will thank you for decades to come”  \n—Ann Wilson, co-host of the Family Life Today radio broadcast and co-author of Vertical Marriage  \n“In this empowering book, Finding the Hero in Your Husband, Juli Slattery is helping us take our eyes oﬀ the imperfections of our spouse, ourselves, and our marriage, and put them onto Christ, the only truly perfect Hero. I love how she unpacks common issues we all face as wives by helping us look a little deeper to see what’s happening underneath the surface of our heartsand marriage. Finding the Hero in Your Husband helps us to practically identify, navigate and heal from the disappointments, disillusionments, and distortions that may be keeping us stuck so that we can discover the beautiful revelation of God’s heart that He intended us to experience through marriage”  \n—Francie Winslow, wife, mom of six, host of Heaven in Your Home podcast  \n[OceanofPDF.com](OceanofPDF.com)  \n[OceanofPDF.com](OceanofPDF.com)  \nTo my Swoo You are THAT Hero!  \n[OceanofPDF.com](OceanofPDF.com)  \nauthor’s note  \nYou may not know this, but I wrote a ﬁrst version of this book in 1999. Alot has changed! I had only been married for ﬁve years and was in the trenches of trying to ﬁgure out how to make my marriage work. 􀀈e wrinkles on my face indicate that I’m no longer that young woman.  \nI also wrote the ﬁrst book when I was very new in ministry. Over the years, my counseling career transitioned into becoming a teacher and eventually a Christian voice on marriage issues, particularly intimacy. 􀀈ese years of personal and professional experience have challenged and seasoned the nuggets of wisdom I had stumbled on so long ago. I’m no longer just that girlfriend writing from the perspective of trying to ﬁgure things out. I now have the conﬁdence that thi","cbCaibXVodK7gC6F","https://ap.wps.com/l/cbCaibXVodK7gC6F","pdf",3717624,240,"English","# Author’s Note\n## Revisiting the 1999 Version\n## Growth Through Counseling and Ministry\n## Modern Cultural Shifts and Marriage\n## God’s Ageless Word, Ongoing Application","[{\"question\":\"What prompted the author to revisit the book years after its first version?\",\"answer\":\"The author wrote an initial version in 1999 when she had been married for only five years, and she revisits it because much has changed—both in her life and in the wider cultural context. 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