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Few of us have wagons and there are no stars.  \nJames Matthew Barrie  \nIntroduction  \nIntuitively we know that every therapist is his or her own‘integration’. Our whole living process, much more than we could ever say about life, is the foundation out of which we understand people and practice therapy. In this sense there is no such thing as a ‘focusing’ therapist, an ‘existential’ therapist, a ‘person-centred’ or‘psychoanalytic’ therapist, as if knowledge of a particular theory could wipe out our living experience and become a new foundation for being. Every moment shapes us by evoking a response; the world rouses and elaborates us, affecting how we live in the next instant and how we respond to the world as it further affects us.  \nTheory, culture, hope and despair, and much more than we could distinguish conceptually, is doing its work in each moment. When I sit across from my client, Iam all that, forming freshly; a therapist who tries to be ‘professional’ in the sense of reducing the impact of their unique life experiences, their confusion, fear, biases and questions, bereaves their clients, leaves them with gaps where another real person should be. We need to be thoughtful, not absent. First I am a person. Thinking as a  \npsychologist or psychotherapist, though it consumes most of my daily activity, remains a small strand of who I am.  \nIn this chapter I want to show how these attempts to be ‘experientially inclusive’impact upon the practice of focusing oriented therapy (FOT) . Who and what I am existentially, including the events of my life and the facts of life itself, are the foundation into which professional ‘knowledge’, skill, and sensitivity integrate.  \nI also need to confess how often I fail; fail to achieve the openness I value, fail to live from the subtle awareness that I am, and fail my clients by backing into theory or homily when I am confused and at a loss. This is not a chapter about achievement, but rather a humble attempt to return to an existentially inclusive awareness of life.  \nThree decades of focusing (Gendlin 2003) has not made me perfect or even good, but it has honed an embodied awareness for those frequent moments when I back away from what feels true. Practicing focusing has imbued my living with the potential of experiential process and the pessimism of sometimes finding no way forward. This lived integration of potential and pessimism resonates through my life and my work asa focusing oriented existential psychotherapist. However, it is ‘pessimism' which I feel is neglected in focusing therapy, hindering its promise to be profoundly inclusive of all human experience.  \nA positive bias  \nAs I see it, part of the issue is that in our understanding of focusing we ‘read in’cultural assumptions, exemplified in words such as ‘positive’and‘life-affirming’, which then hinder existential insight. In order to uncover these assumptions it helps to focus on the felt meaning of terms such as ‘positive’, ‘life-affirming’,‘carryingforward’, each time we use them. These concepts cannot just be adopted; focusing is meant to open up concepts experientially. Each term must be continually unpacked.  \nFocusing and focusing oriented therapy grew out of Gendlin’s work at the University of Chicago in the early 1960s. As a movement, method and philosophy, focusing has roots in the particularities of its American origin. Although focusing and FOT are now international, elements of that original culture remain within focusing writing and practice. In Smile or Die: How positive thinking fooled America and the world (2009) Barbara Ehrenreich reminds us of the diversity of cultural orientations.‘Some cultures, like [America], value the positive affect that seems to signal internal happiness; others are more impressed by seriousness, self-sacrifice, or a quiet willingness to cooperate’ (ibi","cbCaioIhOra6iDXE","https://ap.wps.com/l/cbCaioIhOra6iDXE","pdf",220808,"English","# Introduction\n## A positive bias","[{\"question\":\"Why does the author say there is no such thing as a purely “focusing,” “existential,” or “person-centred” therapist?\",\"answer\":\"Because every therapist’s living process underlies their understanding and practice. Their ongoing moments shape response, so a therapist cannot be reduced to one theory detached from lived experience.\"},{\"question\":\"What does “exhilarating pessimism” refer to in focusing therapy?\",\"answer\":\"It refers to the pessimistic moments when no forward way seems available, yet experiential potential remains. The author argues this aspect is often neglected and can block focusing therapy’s inclusiveness.\"},{\"question\":\"How does the author connect focusing with cultural assumptions about positivity?\",\"answer\":\"The author argues that focusing discussions can “read in” cultural expectations, especially the demand for “positive” and “life-affirming” outcomes. This can obstruct existential insight unless terms are repeatedly unpacked through felt meaning.\"}]","Exhilarating Pessimism - Focusing Oriented Existential Therapy - Introduction | PDF"]