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Luis comes in with a pizza box, as Ahmed sits on the couch.  \nLuis: Pizza, pizza, pizza... Ready?  \nAhmed: Yes.  \nLuis: Wait until you see it.  \nLuis opens the pizza box, showing Ahmed what’s inside .  \nAhmed: Aww   It's a heart.  \nLuis: Isn't it cute?  \nLUIS and AHMED are on the sofa, watching TV and eating pizza straight from the box . Ahmed grabs a slice and takes a big bite, only to be hit with the scalding heat . He gasps in pain, hyperventilating .  \nAhmed: Oh, hot, hot. Oh, hot.  \nLuis grabs his phone and snaps a selfie with Ahmed mid-pain, the photo flashing full-screen for a moment . Luis starts typing a caption: \"A hot slice for my hot slice @AhmedUnplugged . \"  \nAhmed: You're not posting that, right?  \nLuis sheepishly shows Ahmed the screen Ahmed: Crop me out.  \nLuis: Why? You look good.  \nAhmed: I'm not ready for you to post about us.  \nLuis looks at Ahmed, taken aback and disappointed .  \nAhmed: Hey, you need anything from the kitchen?  \nAhmed: My mouth is killing me.  \nAhmed gets up, leaving Luis alone . Luis sighs dramatically . The TV flickers to an infomercial-style scene with the words \"The AwkLine with Shan Boodram” pops up .  \nShan: Need to have an awkward conversation with your partner?  \nLuis turns his attention to the TV . The cheesy PSA graphic on the screen shifts to an infomercial-style scene . “Call Now! THE-AWK-LINE\" flash in bold, neon letters with an exaggerated jingle playing .  \nShan: Call The AwkLine now.  \nLuis stares at the TV shocked before quickly grabbing his phone . Shan: Call us.  \nLuis dials the phone .  \nShan: You've reached The AwkLine where we can help you Own the Awk.  \nLuis and Shan are shown side by side on the TV in a splitscreen    \nShan: Hey Luis.  \nLuis: I really like this guy and want him to be my boyfriend, Luis: but he shut down a soft launch of him on my story.  \nLuis: What do I do?  \nThe words “HOW DO I MAKE THIS OFFICIAL?\" flash in bold, neon letters on the TV screen .  \nShan: Ah, defining the relationship or DTR.  \nShan: Yeah, that can get scary. So instead, focus on DTW, defining the wants.  \nSuper appears on screen saying “HONEST, DIRECT, and OPEN”. Shan: I want you to be honest about what going deeper means for you.  \nShan: Next, you're going to be direct about why you want to have this talk now.  \nShan: And of course, you gotta be open to Ahmed's needs as well.  \nThe TV flickers, and Shan disappears as Ahmed returns with a glass of milk .  \nLuis: I'm sorry I tried to post that pic without asking.  \nAhmed sits down on the couch next to Luis .  \nLuis: I just want people to know how much I care about you.  \nAhmed holds Luis’s hand .  \nLuis: How do you feel about us being together?  \nShan appears on the TV screen .  \nShan: Yes Luis. Start with your wants and then be open to his.  \nAhmed: I like you a lot, but social media can be messy, you know?  \nLuis: I get that. But what I really want to know is that we're headed somewhere.  \nAhmed: Listen, I love where this is going.  \nAhmed: I just want to spend some more time together before we get serious and start, you know, hard launching on social media.  \nAhmed: How about we give it a few weeks and see how we're feeling?  \nLuis: I'm good with pausing on socials, but what about seeing other people?  \nAhmed: It's just you, babe.  \nAhmed: This pizza is my only hot side piece.  \nAhmed grabs another slice of pizza, holding it up wi th a grin and gives Luis a bite . Cheesy music plays with “Real talk . Real Connection” on screen .  \nEnds with [OWNTHEAWK. org](OWNTHEAWK. org) logo.","cbCaihj44fyVRexM","https://ap.wps.com/l/cbCaihj44fyVRexM","pdf",117660,"English","# Episode 1: What Are We?\n## Pizza moment turns awkward\n## TV infomercial guidance: DTW and DTR\n## Applying the advice together","[{\"question\":\"Why does the episode become awkward between Luis and Ahmed?\",\"answer\":\"Luis tries to post a selfie of Ahmed without asking, and Ahmed feels not ready for the relationship to be shared publicly.\"},{\"question\":\"What does Shan Boodram suggest for having the relationship talk?\",\"answer\":\"Shan recommends defining the wants (DTW) instead of forcing a scary “DTR” immediately, using HONEST, DIRECT, and OPEN communication.\"},{\"question\":\"How do Luis and Ahmed decide to move forward after the guidance?\",\"answer\":\"They agree to pause on social media, spend more time together first, and give it a few weeks to see how they feel before getting serious.\"}]","Episode 1 - What Are We? - relationship defining guidance | PDF"]