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Concurrently, anxiety is now considered one of the biggest health issues in children and teens worldwide. Parents sometimes look to professionals to alleviate their child’s anxiety or to calm them down. However, one of the most important sources of rest for a child is usually overlooked – a strong caring attachment with an adult who is responsible for them. The challenge with anxiety is it can  \ndisplace a parent from seeing they can still be the answer to their child’s needs.  \nDr Gary Chapman has articulated what he calls the 5 love languages, and I believe herein lies a key for parents! Communicating love and care simultaneously communicates value, worth and belonging, strengthening attachment. The problem is, not everyone speaks the same “love language”. For example, my stepson’s primary love language is physical touch. He feels loved with hugs, cuddles, wrestling, and so on. Even at 13 years old, he is as hug-y as ever. Now this is not my main love language – it’s not my natural way of expressing love. I am more inclined to make him a nutritious snack or clean his bathroom for him. However, if this was the only way I showed love for him, he would feel completely disconnected from me. I have had to learn how to speak his love language.  \nAs a Family School Liaison Counsellor, this topic comes up regularly in my office. At times I feel like a translator as I help parents understand what their youth needs. Some youth are starving for words of love and affirmation, and their parents are putting all their energy into loving through thoughtful gifts and fun activities.  \nWhat follows is an article Dr Chapman wrote for parents, simply breaking down the different love languages and how they can be expressed. I strongly encourage you to take a read, and see what jumps out!  \nOh, and Happy Valentines!  \nThe 5 Love Languages and Your Teen  \nDr Gordon Chapman  \n[https://www.focusonthefamily.com/parenting/teens/love-languages-and-your-teen](https://www.focusonthefamily.com/parenting/teens/love-languages-and-your-teen)  \n[On a 0-to-10 scale](On a 0-to-10 scale), how much do your parents love you?\" That was the question posed to 13-year-old Mark. Without batting an eye, he answered, \"Ten. \"  \nWhen asked how he knew they loved him that much, he said, \"By the way they treat me. Dad is always bumping me when he walks by, and we wrestle on the floor, and Mom's always hugging and kissing me. \"  \nMark feels loved by his parents' warm, caring touches, revealing that his primary love language is physical touch.  \nAfter more than 20 years of marriage and family counseling, I am convinced there are only five basic languages of love. Of these five, each teen has a primary love language, one that speaks more loudly and deeply to him or her. If a parent fails to speak this language adequately, the teen will not feel loved, regardless of other expressions of love. (View Dr. Chapman's free quiz at Love Languages and Your Teen. )  \nVisualize that inside every teen is an emotional love tank. When the teen's love tank is full—that is, she genuinely feels loved by her parents—the teen can make her way through adolescence with minimal trauma. But when the teen's love tank is empty, she will grapple with many internal struggles and will typically look for love in all the wrong places. Therefore, discerning your teen's love language is essential.  \nHere is a brief description of each of the five love languages.  \nPhysical touch  \nHugs, kisses and tender touches are given in abundance when a child is young. However, some parents feel more awkward about touching as their child enters adolescence. If a teen's primary love language is physical touch, those appropriate touches are no less important during the teen years than they were in the earlier years.  \nWords of affirmation  \nUsin","cbCaii9TFmhI4uAF","https://ap.wps.com/l/cbCaii9TFmhI4uAF","pdf",82689,"English","# The Role of Healthy Attachment in Managing Anxiety\n## Love Languages as a Parenting Tool\n# The 5 Love Languages and Teens\n## Physical Touch\n## Words of Affirmation\n## Quality Time\n## Giving and Receiving Gifts\n## Acts of Service","[{\"question\":\"Why is healthy attachment important for addressing children’s anxiety?\",\"answer\":\"Healthy attachment with a responsible adult provides a primary source of rest for children. When that attachment is strong, teens are better able to move through adolescence with less trauma.\"},{\"question\":\"What are love languages and why do they matter for teens?\",\"answer\":\"Love languages describe different ways people experience and express love. 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