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It emphasizes that every relationship requires intentional work and teamwork, and that two people must contribute to growth. The talk highlights three key ingredients: focusing on becoming rather than finding, establishing identity, acceptance, and purpose only through God, and choosing to work on relational “fixes” instead of replacing or blaming partners. It also uses Bible references to correct distorted ideas of marriage.","3 INGREDIENTS OF HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS  \nLast time we talked about 5 QUESTIONS YOU MUST ASK BEFORE \"I DO\"  \nHOW MANY OF YOU WERE BLESSED?  \nIF YOU HAVEN'T DONE IT, I WOULD LOVE TO STRONGLY ENCOURAGE YOU AS A COUPLE TODO IT.  \nALL OF US WANT TO BUILD AN INTENTIONAL, DEEP AND MEANINGFUL RELATIONSHIP WITH ONE ANOTHER.  \nAND WE BELIEVE THAT WHEN THERE IS AGREEMENT and ALIGNMENT    THERE WILL BE BLESSINGS, and FAVOUR FROM ABOVE  \nSo if you missed that   make you sure you head the Movement Church YouTube and check it out.  \nSo today we're going to talk about……  \n3 INGREDIENTS OF HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS.  \nSO LAST TIME, WE WERE PREPARING YOU FOR A RELATIONSHIP. BUT TODAY, WE WANT TO BUILD ON THAT RELATIONSHIP.  \nARE YOU READY?  \nEVERY RELATIONSHIP IS WORK (ITS NEVER AN AUTO PILOT THING).  \nAND IT TAKES TEAMWORK.  \nIT ALWAYS TAKES TWO FOR RELATIONSHIPS TO EITHER WORK OR BREAK.  \nAND IN THE MOVEMENT TEAM    \nWE BELIEVE THAT WE NEED TO ALWAYS COME BACK TO GOD’S ORIGINAL DESIGN WHEN IT COMES TO RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE.  \nAND WE WANT TO BE CONSTANT IN THIS. WE WANT TO BE LOUD AND CLEAR IN THIS.  \nBECAUSE THE VIEW OF RELATIONSHIPS / MARRIAGE HAVE BEEN SOOO DISTORTED BY THE WORLD   DISTORTED BY THE WORLD    \nTHE MOVIES WE WATCHED (CRASH LANDING ON YOU, ITS OKAY NOT TO BE OKAY)   HOW MANY OF YOU KNOW THAT GOD NEVER INTENDED YOU TO CRASH LAND ON ANYTHING OR ANYONE!  \nNOW TODAY….WE ARE GOING TO LEARN THE 3 KEY INGREDIENTS OF HOW TO BUILD A HEALTHY STRONG FAVOURED RELATIONSHIP ACCORDING TO THE ORIGINAL BLUEPRINT   THE BIBLE.  \n……are you ready!  \n1. FOCUS ON BECOMING, NOT FINDING!  \nTHE FIRST KEY TO HAVING A SUCCESSFUL HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP IS TO HAVE ONE WITH YOURSELF FIRST.  \nYou won't be happy in relationships if you couldn't be happy on your own (AKA when you're single)  \nHAPPINESS DOES NOT COME FROM FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON.  \nHAPPINESS ALWAYS AND WILL ALWAYS COMES FROM BEING THE RIGHT PERSON.  \nThe most common misconception about marriage is    \nFinding a 'SOUL MATE' -someone who will complete us.  \nThe problem with looking to another human to complete us is that   spiritually speaking, it’s IDOLATRY  \nWe are to find our FULFILLMENT and PURPOSE in God    \nbut if we expect our spouse to be \"God\" to us, he or she will fail every day   No person can live up to such expectations.  \nEven the Bible says that    \nGENESIS 2:24  \nFor this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become ONE flesh.  \nThe will become ONE----NOT become WHOLE, or become COMPLETE.  \n(SIDENOTE)  \nIf you're not in relationship yet…  \nDon't waste your singleness, its not a waiting time, it’s a preparation time.  \nBest advice: Don't go into relationships before you figure out these 3 things    \nTHREE THINGS THAT ONLY GOD CAN GIVE YOU:  \n1. Your IDENTITY  \n2. Your ACCEPTANCE  \n3. Your PURPOSE  \nYour Identity-in a world that’s constantly trying to define you, distort your divine identity   We need to know that \"I am a child of God! I am a beloved daughter of God, I am the son of the King!\"  \nYour Acceptance-Every human soul has the need to feel accepted and be a part of something bigger than ourselves. But if you don't ultimately that we belong to God, we have been accepted by Him   We can seek acceptance and approval from other people  \nYour Purpose-its important that we do not get caught in this trap, why am I here, why did God create me   Life is more than just living a good life, making money, chasing happines   But there's way greater purpose in God's creation.  \nAnd these 3 things are to be fulfilled from   WITHIN    \nWITHOUT IT   WE WILL KEEP SAYING 'I WILL BE HAPPY WHEN   I MEET THE ONE' 'I WILL BE COMPLETE ONLY WHEN I MEET…THE ONE'  \nCHURCH I WANT TO SAY IT LOUD AND CLEAR…THAT YOU IDENTITY, YOUR ACCCEPTANCE AND YOUR PURPOSE WILL NOT COME FROM YOUR SPOUSE    \nONLY JESUS CAN GIVE YOU THOSE THINGS!!  \nWhen we seek all these 3 things from outside / other than God   we’ll be confused, misled and say    \n“Please tell me you love me  ","cbCaibwEqVqp5sUs","https://ap.wps.com/l/cbCaibwEqVqp5sUs","pdf",294586,1,10,"English","en",105,"# 3 INGREDIENTS OF HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS\n## Focus on becoming, not finding\n## Identity, acceptance, purpose from God\n## Work on the relationship together","[{\"question\":\"Why does the message say relationships require work, not autopilot?\",\"answer\":\"Because relationships are not automatic; they require teamwork. 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