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You’re talking, and the sparks are starting to ignite between you. But how can you be sure that you’re falling in love with someone who is right for you? Are you called to be with this person?  \nIf you’re going to hear a calling, you have to listen. Hearing and listening are partners…they go together. The callings we hear in our relationships with a potential significant other are subtle and powerful. You can reveal their subtle power by becoming good at asking questions in your relationship and then really hearing and listening to your partner’s response. Then ask a follow-up question that comes from your genuine curiosity to go deeper into understanding the other person! It really works. Let’s explore how questions can help us hear the call of love in a relationship with someone we’re interested in.  \nThe Power of Questions  \nMarilee Adams, founder of the Inquiry Institute and author of Change Your Questions; Change Your Life, claims that questions are the source of the results we get in our relationships and in life in general. When we don’t like our results, we too quickly make decisions and spring into action without thinking about the questions that are the source of our decisions and actions.  \n4 Letters That Can Change Your Life: Q.D.A.R.  \nAdams demonstrates that you go through a predictable sequence every day to produce the results you are getting in your relationship. Here’s the sequence:  \n1. Q – You first ask a QUESTION  \n2. D – Then you make a DECISION  \n3. A – Then you ACT on your decision  \n4. R – Then you get your RESULT  \nQuestion, Decision, Action, Result – in that order. If you don’t like your relationship results, you need to dig down to the question that is the source of the results and change the question. The new question will lead to a different decision which will lead to different actions and produce new results.  \nQ. D.A. R. In Real Life  \nLet me give you an example from my marriage. One night, I awoke at 3:00 am about to fall out of bed onto the hardwood floor. I was startled, and then I realized what was going on. My wife and slowly nudged me to the edge of the bed inch-by-inch as we slept through the night and was about to nudge me right out of the bed. I immediately became aware of the question that popped into my head,“Why am I married to such a bed hog?”  \nThis was not the first time this had happened. In the past when my wife nearly nudged me out of bed, the same question emerged in my mind, and I answered it by deciding to toss and turn vigorously to bounce her back to her side of the bed. The action I produced from that decision was indeed vigorous  \nand included a good bit of flailing, and it woke her up. The result was two partners in bad moods and disrupted sleep, which was not good for the relationship.  \n1. The New Question: On this particular night, I caught myself asking the very judgmental question,“Why am I married to such a bed hog?” It made me laugh because I caught myself in the act of judging her while she was unconscious. So, I decided to change my question. I asked,“How could she possibly know she is hogging the bed, she is unconscious?” This question moved me to empathy and calmed me down. I then asked myself,“What can I do to get more of the bed back without disturbing her sleep?” Now my mind was opening up to make a better decision.  \n2. The Better Decision: I decided that I would toss and turn, but I would do it gently.  \n3. The Improved Action: I turned over slowly (no flailing this time) and put my arm around her. She somehow knew what was happening and moved over to her side of the bed.  \n4. The Result I Wanted: We both went quickly back to sleep. Our relationship was improved, and we awoke refreshed for another good day of marriage.  \nWhat Is A Powerful Question?  \nA powerful question has several key characteristics:  \n• Powerful questi","cbCaib45e73ooSOl","https://ap.wps.com/l/cbCaib45e73ooSOl","pdf",238005,"English","# Questions to Ask Someone Before Falling in Love\n## The Power of Questions\n## 4 Letters That Can Change Your Life: Q.D.A.R.\n## Q.D.A.R. in Real Life\n## What Is A Powerful Question?\n## Powerful Questions to Ask When You Think You’re Falling In Love","[{\"question\":\"How do questions influence relationship outcomes according to the Q.D.A.R. framework?\",\"answer\":\"Questions drive decisions, decisions drive actions, and actions produce results. 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